16 NOVEMBER 2011
Many times i have seen in my life that
family relatives are very good in nature they are very soft spoken, they always
talk to me like they care for me, at that time i always think that they are the
best gift of god. When i was a kid, my grandmother always told me that
relatives play very import role in one's life, she used to tell me that we are
very lucky that we have so many relation's, other then the family relations we
also have the relation's which are very far away from our family. I always
ask's my grand mother that why we have so many relationship's and i always try
to understand that how so & so is our relative.
Now tym passes and i am grown up, now i
able to understand the whole thing that is :
What all the relations are, who all the
relatives are, and most importantly what is the nature of the relatives,
wheather they are good in nature or not, wheather they are helpful or not, i
understands the whole thing.
There are very very rare relatives who
are found to be helpful, till now i have seen that relatives are very mean in
nature, they always think for themselves, when ever we meet any of our relative
they just say " JAI JINENDER JI, AUR KYA HAAL HAI" in reply to that
we always say " BAS JI SAB THEEK HAI, AAP SUNAO".
Whenever we are suffering from any
problem they never come to us and never gives any solution to that problem,
they just stand away and look the game and when the game is over then all of
them comes near to us and start giving there opinions " MAINE TO KAHA THA
AISE KAR LO, MAINE TO KAHA THA WAISE KAR LO, AAPKO AISE NAHI KARNA CHAHIYE
THA........ETC".
If i want's to set up a new business and
want's to borrow knowledge from any of our close relatives they never helps me
in this, they just go away that means they even don't want to share knowledge
of business with me, i don't know why this happens. These are the people who
don't want to share there knowledge. Even i have also seen many relatives who always
gives the wrong opinion in either case i don't know why people have jealous
from other's.
I want to say that relatives never want
to share any knowledge with u, they never want to help u, they just think for
themselves, they are generally mean in nature, they never help u in setteling
your career.
Relatives are just for attending family
functions, parties, marriges and all.
Earlier i have some expectations from my
relatives in terms of help. love and care, but as the time passes my
expectations just flown away with water.
Today I expect " NOTHING" from
my relatives except " HELLO, HI , & BYE BYE".
There are many lucky persons who are
expecting something from relationships and able to fulfill it.
"ONLY GOD AND PARENTS ARE THE BEST
RELATIVES I HAVE EVER SEEN"...........
We do not want to laugh,
